RAMAYANA - EP8 - Learnings

|| जय श्री राम ||

  • To vanish problems and pains of your parents, especially father's, try utmost to fulfill their wishes.
  • Always understand the dilemma of your parents and their situation with respect to society, and act accordingly because parents never ever can think of creating problems for their children.
  • First prior Dharm of a woman is to serve her husband and then serve and take care of her children. She must always choose her husband over children.
  • Whoever in your family treats you with so called wrong ways, then consider that as your fate and accept it considering the long duration of affection. It must be because of that bad time.
  • Momentary bad behavior of a family member must not be judged ignoring years of affection among you all.
  • Elders must never be disrespected in any case - whatever they do to you.
  • If your siblings behave badly or get emotionally driven to behave bad, then elders brothers' and sisters' Dharm is to bring them back on the track of respect and deviate from setting incorrect path of others.
  • Always handle the situation of family crisis with Dharm priorities. Try to bring everyone together and tie in one knot.
  • Even if your near and dear ones become cruel to you in bad situation, never ever react with anger to them, instead accept it as your fate and try to keep the situation neutral.
  • However bad the world thinks and treats of your father, you must stand with him in any situation. This is a son's prior Dharm.
  • If you see the reputation of your family being ruined by provoking you, be alert and turn it down to them and appeal everyone to accept the positive and goodness of your family.
  • Always try to save others from the pains, you may have to face for your own fate.
  • Even if the situation occurs, entire family must never be torn apart. Try to keep it intact by keeping someone dear with elders, like Urmila was left behind in Ayodhya to take care of family.
  • A person, whether he be a king, must be consoled when he appears to be wrong and painful, provided he has all the good reputation till date.

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