Irfan Khan is personal loss

I had his glimpse very first in the song of movie Rog - 'maine dil se kaha..', where he was adjusting his glares with a smile of the uniqueness.


Then Maqbool and so on.

And the journey started from there till his recent films, Lunch Box, PIKU, Hindi Medium. It was more than just talent. Something definitely was extraordinary but no one could what it was as it just manifested, it could never be explained.

I watched his many interviews and I found many similarities in myself and him as an actor and as a person.

He was too shy person and very much introvert as heard from colleagues.

A great talent passed from the great institute like NSD Delhi - so question about his capabilities.

Irrfan Khan and Saba Qamar in Hindi Medium (2017)

But what he achieved was with own sweat and hardwork.

He was major inspiration to industry and to aspiring actors, both professionally and personally.

He can never be learnt and He can never be recreated.

You will not see tears in the eyes of people who watched him in various movies but their heart is crying, and that He was Irfan Khan ! The Industry is mourning in such pandemic situation around.

This is a major setback to industry as well as loss. 



RAMAYANA - EP10 - Learnings

|| जय श्री राम ||

Karma is ultimate reason and result for anything happening with us.

Irrespective of Paap done unknowingly, you have to face the consequences as it has hurt someone badly.

Irrespective of the pain and sufferings, we all must try best to abide following Dharm.

Even if people around you express consolation and show sympathy, you still adhere to your path of Dharm.

Whatever task is allocated to you by Vidhi(TIME), complete is with utmost honesty and dedication as per Dharm.

Everyone's been assigned different duties and so we must focus only on ours, in co-operation with others.

We must never forget our birth place and always respect it wherever we are.

Any home you will are going to enter, make sure to perform Griha Pravehs rituals as per our culture.


Mill, Black Forest, Bach, Water, Forest, Landscape

RAMAYANA - EP9 - Learnings

|| जय श्री राम ||

  • Try best not to create problems for well-wishers.
  • Never ever forget to express gratitude and favors who helped you in band times
  • Always make best possible arrangements for your wife
  • Never deviate from your Dharm by being attracted towards people offering their services
  • Always worship Ganga river as it is manifested directly from heaven
  • Always listen to people in front of you, irrespective of however they sound rude to you
  • Never miss the opportunity to visit the respected elders in society, like Muni, Sanyasi
  • Always remember etiquette you learnt while visiting respected personalities.
  • Irrespective of the work anyone does, e.g. Shudra, everyone should be treated with humanity first
  • Always follow your Dharm with best possible intentions so that no-one will point fingers to you for violation of anything 
Hand, Candle, Diwali, Festival Of Lights, Hinduism

RAMAYANA - EP8 - Learnings

|| जय श्री राम ||

  • To vanish problems and pains of your parents, especially father's, try utmost to fulfill their wishes.
  • Always understand the dilemma of your parents and their situation with respect to society, and act accordingly because parents never ever can think of creating problems for their children.
  • First prior Dharm of a woman is to serve her husband and then serve and take care of her children. She must always choose her husband over children.
  • Whoever in your family treats you with so called wrong ways, then consider that as your fate and accept it considering the long duration of affection. It must be because of that bad time.
  • Momentary bad behavior of a family member must not be judged ignoring years of affection among you all.
  • Elders must never be disrespected in any case - whatever they do to you.
  • If your siblings behave badly or get emotionally driven to behave bad, then elders brothers' and sisters' Dharm is to bring them back on the track of respect and deviate from setting incorrect path of others.
  • Always handle the situation of family crisis with Dharm priorities. Try to bring everyone together and tie in one knot.
  • Even if your near and dear ones become cruel to you in bad situation, never ever react with anger to them, instead accept it as your fate and try to keep the situation neutral.
  • However bad the world thinks and treats of your father, you must stand with him in any situation. This is a son's prior Dharm.
  • If you see the reputation of your family being ruined by provoking you, be alert and turn it down to them and appeal everyone to accept the positive and goodness of your family.
  • Always try to save others from the pains, you may have to face for your own fate.
  • Even if the situation occurs, entire family must never be torn apart. Try to keep it intact by keeping someone dear with elders, like Urmila was left behind in Ayodhya to take care of family.
  • A person, whether he be a king, must be consoled when he appears to be wrong and painful, provided he has all the good reputation till date.

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