Do this and your children will obey anything you expect

They will not improve unless you show fear to your children.

Is the notion what we or rather our entire society have made concrete in our minds? Perhaps all of these things have been rooted in our childhood. Because we are showing children the fear of what they are afraid of. While the children grow up, side-effects of those experiences emerge.

The first thing that is easy to start in the childhood is to show the fear of darkness. There are many kinds of fears that 'there is darkness', 'there is a ghost in the darkness', someone sitting on the cross will take you. Generally, all people show fear of police and the doctors. Next level of fear is the fear of God who will punish for anything done wrong.
Gradually, one day, the children know the truth and then they are not afraid of these things. The next chapter of fear begins.

In schools, punishment is a must thing to discipline children. Its types change, though nowadays we don’t see physical punishments. 

At such a time, the question arises that in the child’s world, are we really their friends, helper, parents, teachers, or the only officials? Do you always have to present someone else's fear, like some usual rules that big people should talk to children with loud voice, anger, big eyes, and threats? You think children will not listen to you unless you say or behave like that?

If the children do not have the fear of being punished, the kids will get spoiled and will not listen to anyone, are you going to take this thought for granted?
If you think that children do not improve without punishment, be it at home, school, college, then why we see youth as disciplined in few countries? Are they different from us?
We are happy to tell each other how much cleanliness is observed in others homes or cities or countries; but why cannot we do these things at ours places? The root of all this
lies in the behaviors which is - children are told not to run your own head, and fearfully do what I say to you!

Nobody denies the importance of discipline. Discipline is expected to be followed everywhere. All of us should follow it certainly. Unless there is punishment for it, we do not want to follow it, whatever is the importance of that disciplinary rule then be. As an example, until the last date comes, we do not get willingness to pay income tax. As there is a police standing, we stop vehicles at the zebra crossing at the traffic signal. However, if you do not have a police near the next signal, then your vehicle goes straight ahead.

At such times there is no hesitation in the mind. As long as there is no punishment and no penalties, we do not follow the rules. Because of this, breaking the rules keeps on going until there is someone stopping us fearfully.

Children should not do it because of fear of others. They themselves should like and get the importance of the discipline. They should like the cleanliness, so they will keep their places clean, no delays in work knowingly, likewise many things in life, they will follow because of the goodness in it.

We try to forcefully make the children obey us, usually in anger, but this does not create self-discipline, but yes – it creates distance in minds. Parents are worried about how many marks in the test are obtained; but mental, emotional and intellectual development should be looked after from the childhood itself. If you can make conversation with your children getting to the emotional level of your child, that too at right time and with least words, with patience, then definitely there is lot of scope of improvement.

What Is God And What Is Truth About God - Know It Here

God was born on the man's mind. This birth date tends to be occurrences of natural catastrophic events.
Due to the tremendous winds, collapsing rains, floods, storms, earthquakes, volcanoes, and fears of man, insecurity and uncertainty, their mind, eyes and hands turned towards the sky automatically. God make those things happen in the external world, and he made his wish that he was created by God. Then he started praying in various forms and in different ways.
Man's life has always been dependent on external conditions and incidents or has made reactions with them. External conditions are made up of natural and social environments, which change with time. Therefore, changing the ways and means of coping with it is a part of life but not compulsion.
Various communities have been living on the back of the earth where natural conditions of each region are different. Therefore, natural disasters in the area are different. Man has different ways of coping with the cooling frost in cooler climates and the warming heat in the hot region. Natural disasters are also different. God's ideas in the minds of the people living there are different in different forms. The God of the cold land is providing heat to them and vice versa. And similar happens with the concepts of heaven and hell. 

As the human progressed he found more than one better solution to fight natural disasters and to live a life. It changed the concept of God. Scientific progress has proved that not all natural disasters are due to this mysterious or unknown phenomenon. There is a special natural cause-tradition behind every natural event. And when this tradition is completed, that happens. For example, when the water of the earth evaporates, its clouds are filled with water and the rain falls. If the clouds hit each other, friction in them generates electricity. After knowing these secret rules, the fear of it disappeared.
Some remotely located groups, tribes, uneducated etc. still look at them as divine action.
Today, if an advanced person does not see God in natural circumstances, he still believes in God. Very few people are atheists. Although some religious communities do not believe in the existence of God, they consider it as some external power in some form. They do not give the name of God to that power, but they are taking their support for survival.

Though man is brave and courageous and equipped with fully developed weapons and tools, still he does not completely depend on his own strength. He may need supplemental support from time to time. However a man is foreseeable in pre-arrangement, the possibility of accident, uncertainty and unexpected incidents of vulnerable events, makes him believe in the concept of God. Because such incidents are entirely dependent on external conditions, he wants the basis and guarantee of external power. At such times, he turns to his reverence and wishes his task to be accomplished as best as possible. At this time he does not use his knowledge, science, and conscience. Man's revered places are different. The best place where he can see it in a tangible or intangible form, he gets a bow. Those who only rely on their faith places to be fruitful, they are certainly stupid. But, those who use their faith as the place of inspiration and power are not weak. They are more active volunteers who accomplish their work by getting more strength and courage from it. 
As long as the community groups who believe in different gods and goddesses peacefully worship, propagate and spread their gods and do not hate or disrespect, tolerate that of others, until then there is peace, health and harmony in those places.
However, the biggest bloodshed in the world until now has happened in the name of Gods. Let's now think about the conflict of God. When it comes to thinking, the basic question arises that God is one or the many? Those religions that do not believe in God and deny the existence of God, we see that their followers look at the founders of such religion as God and worship them! It means that all human beings need an external support, power and that power is not felt safe without seeing them in some form. 

It is surprising that those religion and society who believe in God, believe that God is one and that God has created everything. However, every society also explains that his God is real and others’ are false. And this starts the debate about God! How to discern the true God and false God? If all human beings are the creation of their God, then they are not even thinking about their own brothers and sisters. They are hatred and murdered for worshipping ‘their God’? This is the result of all ignorance and mean mentality. 
Science has proven today that that power is actually some supreme power that covers the entire universe. Our planet is one of the many other planets like Earth in this universe.
Every material is filled with that supreme power, be it lifeless or inanimate, stone, wood, iron, etc and has been made of neutrons and protons. The actual example of this is the atom bomb. The atoms which create massive explosion cannot be seen by us but exhausts so huge energy. Where did the power within an atomic energy come from? That power means that supremacy which creates the entire universe may be called God.
How did this power come or who created it? And whoever created it, may we know who can be the creator of that creator! This chain of reasoning and logic is beyond our imagination.
That power lies in all living, inanimate and material things, that is unquestionable truth.
This power is incomprehensible and formless. Man attaches various qualities such as anger, greed, love to it and tries to make it look like himself or herself.
Fantasies are created which tell that power will punish or bless as per the rules set up. 
When any living being dies, then this power goes away from them. This force, which is situated in the alive body, is called the ‘soul’. Some people refer to it as 'spirituality'.  If this power is within us, then why to associate it’s relation to something outside us. Maybe such people are not aware of the energy that is self-contained. Man only needs its support from time to time. Therefore, the reason for it is to get it done Praying.
There is no need to search for God. God means supreme power and we all are its creation.
God resides in us only. It is what we need to be aware of and to behave like that, always keep our thoughts and actions in high values.

Talk Less.Earn Respect.

It sometimes creates a wrong impression that more the person talks, more is he intelligent. Well, let me tell you, it is not the case always.

Once a person enters into a talking zone, he/she may forget in the flow that whether the person next to him is really interested in listening or hearing it. So you can prefer to talk less and talk only if really needed.

If you take opinion from anyone amongst your relatives, friends, colleagues whether they enjoy guys with much talk or fewer talks, the most probable answer will be ones with fewer talks. Because the problem with much-talked people is, however they may appear interestingly entertaining, that we tend to lose interest in their talk slowly, naturally and unknowingly.

Of course in a mutual interaction, when you comprehend that person next to you is keen on listening to something from you, the talks are endless. Such talks are spontaneous and respectful from both sides; talker as well as the listener.

So the best way is to get the judgment of the mood of the person next to you, and then proceed to talk. If he responds and shows interest in your talked thoughts, then go ahead and let the talk blossom. Sometimes, even less but effective talks can create an impact to change the mood of someone. You can really inspire or refresh someone with your talk if done in a precise manner.

But hold on!

Even if the person is showing respect and interest in your talks, it does not mean that you can just go ahead and bombard him or her with your views and thoughts. There is a moment when even the inspired person gets to lose interest in the same talk which made him refreshing just before sometime.

So talking with someone is really a respectful deed.

When two persons don’t know each other, and they initiate a talk, there can be wonders. If both of you talk in a controlled manner, definitely it is a wonderful feeling for both or all of them. In that, they all can greatly exchange their views towards the subject of talk. In that way, they all earn respect for each other in their hearts. Earning the respects in the heart in way more respectful than doing it only superficially. We all must agree to this.

On the other hand, if any of them tries to compel his or her thought over others, then it no longer remains a talk which someone is interested in. It may become a disrespectful thing if we don’t respect other’s talked things. So you have to be very careful while talking.
Talking is the lightly taken thing by most of us, but its impact is also ignored by most of us. Sometimes we may talk unknowingly the things which we never know are hurting somebody.

It is really a way of earning respect in eyes of your near and dear ones. With doing so, your beloved ones will feel to express themselves freely to you. They will feel comfortable with you. And most importantly, you earn respect. It is truly in your hand.

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